Germane to my previous post on virginity/True love doesn’t wait, I want to say…. “true love” wasn’t a noun there, designating a destined mate. “True love” described a quality of love, the same usage as in “true love waits [for marriage to have sex].” I don’t believe that there is only one “true love” for a given person.
I don’t believe “true love” means finding “The One” you’re “supposed” to be with.
Because there is no “one.” That is a fairy tale. Fairy tales are great.
But fairy tales are myths. Our myths tell us, as a culture, what our hopes and fears are. Continue reading