A few weeks ago, I went to a house party. More specifically, a blues dance party. Because if I’m at a party, there’s an ~80% chance its a blues dance party. At this party, I eventually I got to dancing with Ben, one of my favorite leads, and –although this has nothing to do with why I enjoy dancing with him– he’d been hitting on me for years.
Back in the day, when Ben first started flirting with me, I was very confused. Wasn’t he married?! Later I learned that Ben and his wife, Rose* are well-known in the community for, among other things, their open-marriage.