Let’s talk about boundaries, friends!
Spoiler alert: I have SO MANY feelings about boundaries. Like, SO MANY.
I am a full-on boundaries nerd, and I can and will talk about them for-basically-ever. Therefore, I will be doing a series of posts about boundaries, and try and keep each post to one central thought on the topic. And the first thought, the most important thought, the alpha-and-omega of boundaries, is this:
You always have a right to your boundaries.
Boundaries are what define how we allow the outside world to interact with us. They determine how much access people get to have – whether and where they can touch us, how and in what ways they can talk to us, in what situations and to what extent we allow them to see us as we are.
Your boundaries are your own. You get to decide where they are, and for whom. Only you.